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		<title>By: PJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>PJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 23:08:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m looking for a connection with the main characters.  I want good dialogue between them.  I want to &lt;i&gt;like&lt;/i&gt; them though, if the writing is very good, I have in the past enjoyed books while being lukewarm about the main characters.  Like others have mentioned, my emotions need to be engaged.  Whether they make me laugh, cry or just sigh there needs to be that emotional investment in their story.  I like new and different storylines (Kantra&#039;s Children of the Sea is a good example) but I also enjoy tried and true storylines if they are well-written.  Mainly I just want to be entertained. :)

I think we all bring our life experiences and our personal likes/dislikes to the books we read and that&#039;s a good thing.  It sure would be a boring world if we all liked the same stuff.  Vive la difference!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m looking for a connection with the main characters.  I want good dialogue between them.  I want to <i>like</i> them though, if the writing is very good, I have in the past enjoyed books while being lukewarm about the main characters.  Like others have mentioned, my emotions need to be engaged.  Whether they make me laugh, cry or just sigh there needs to be that emotional investment in their story.  I like new and different storylines (Kantra&#8217;s Children of the Sea is a good example) but I also enjoy tried and true storylines if they are well-written.  Mainly I just want to be entertained. <img src='http://www.romancenovel.tv/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I think we all bring our life experiences and our personal likes/dislikes to the books we read and that&#8217;s a good thing.  It sure would be a boring world if we all liked the same stuff.  Vive la difference!</p>
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		<title>By: Marisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 23:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laura -  one of my favorite parts of any book is the journey - &#039;seeing how they get there&#039;.

azteclady - crystal clear!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laura &#8211;  one of my favorite parts of any book is the journey &#8211; &#8217;seeing how they get there&#8217;.</p>
<p>azteclady &#8211; crystal clear!</p>
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		<title>By: Marisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 23:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Katiebabs - yes, emotional connection between the characters is always a plus for me when reading a book. And like Kati, I want my emotions engaged.  

Kati when you wrote &lt;b&gt;I want the authors whose work I love to live up to the standards they’ve set. &lt;/b&gt; I thought, YES! I totally understand how you feel. I think I was a little afraid to say that, even to myself.  After reading that it surprised me how much that resonated with me.  I do have a lot of expectations from certain authors and I wonder how fair it is of me to judge an author&#039;s individual work against their &#039;body&#039; of work.  But there it is. When, as an author you&#039;ve captured my attention, I want that same experience over and over again. And yet, books are &#039;living&#039; documents, they have a life of their own as each one of us picks it up. What we bring to it colors how we read it.  I think that there is a contract we enter into with each book with read.  Depending on my mood and what&#039;s going on in my life will definitely inform what I think about the book- Heidenkind pointed that out so brilliantly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Katiebabs &#8211; yes, emotional connection between the characters is always a plus for me when reading a book. And like Kati, I want my emotions engaged.  </p>
<p>Kati when you wrote <b>I want the authors whose work I love to live up to the standards they’ve set. </b> I thought, YES! I totally understand how you feel. I think I was a little afraid to say that, even to myself.  After reading that it surprised me how much that resonated with me.  I do have a lot of expectations from certain authors and I wonder how fair it is of me to judge an author&#8217;s individual work against their &#8216;body&#8217; of work.  But there it is. When, as an author you&#8217;ve captured my attention, I want that same experience over and over again. And yet, books are &#8216;living&#8217; documents, they have a life of their own as each one of us picks it up. What we bring to it colors how we read it.  I think that there is a contract we enter into with each book with read.  Depending on my mood and what&#8217;s going on in my life will definitely inform what I think about the book- Heidenkind pointed that out so brilliantly.</p>
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		<title>By: Marisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 22:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, thanks so much for such thoughtful responses. 

Stacy, I&#039;m in agreement with you - all the books on my keeper shelf, the ones I re-read, have all engaged my emotions. And I think that sort of lets me know why we all have such different reactions to a book. We all have different emotions/baggage we carry around and those don&#039;t go away when we enter into the world of fiction. 

I also agree that when a book &#039;surprises&#039; me - in other words, when it isn&#039;t so predictable - well, they&#039;ve got me.  The genius of being creative, innovative and one of kind is hard to do, but when an author achieves that!... well, I&#039;m buying their next book.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, thanks so much for such thoughtful responses. </p>
<p>Stacy, I&#8217;m in agreement with you &#8211; all the books on my keeper shelf, the ones I re-read, have all engaged my emotions. And I think that sort of lets me know why we all have such different reactions to a book. We all have different emotions/baggage we carry around and those don&#8217;t go away when we enter into the world of fiction. </p>
<p>I also agree that when a book &#8217;surprises&#8217; me &#8211; in other words, when it isn&#8217;t so predictable &#8211; well, they&#8217;ve got me.  The genius of being creative, innovative and one of kind is hard to do, but when an author achieves that!&#8230; well, I&#8217;m buying their next book.</p>
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		<title>By: PJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>PJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 22:21:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;I think everyone has had the experience of trying to re-read a book that we know we love, but we can’t get into it. That’s not the book’s fault, it’s the reader’s.&lt;/b&gt;

Excellent point!  I totally agree!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>I think everyone has had the experience of trying to re-read a book that we know we love, but we can’t get into it. That’s not the book’s fault, it’s the reader’s.</b></p>
<p>Excellent point!  I totally agree!</p>
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		<title>By: Kati</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kati</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 19:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;I think everyone has had the experience of trying to re-read a book that we know we love, but we can’t get into it. That’s not the book’s fault, it’s the reader’s.&lt;/b&gt;

GENIUS point, heidenkind!

I have a stack of books that are DNF&#039;s for me that I refuse to get rid of because I *know* that I wasn&#039;t in the right frame of mind when I tried to read them the last time. That is a really, really good point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>I think everyone has had the experience of trying to re-read a book that we know we love, but we can’t get into it. That’s not the book’s fault, it’s the reader’s.</b></p>
<p>GENIUS point, heidenkind!</p>
<p>I have a stack of books that are DNF&#8217;s for me that I refuse to get rid of because I *know* that I wasn&#8217;t in the right frame of mind when I tried to read them the last time. That is a really, really good point.</p>
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		<title>By: heidenkind</title>
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		<dc:creator>heidenkind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 19:21:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting post, Marisa.  Although I do have say... um, I hated Scandal. =/  I didn&#039;t finish it; nothing happened during the entire course of the book (the part that I read, anyway), and I hated the heroine.  So there you go--there&#039;s always SOMEONE who doesn&#039;t like a book.

I think there are certain storylines that resonate with individuals, and they&#039;re probably going to like any book or movie with those plot elements, even if it&#039;s not the best.  Also having characters you can connect with is important to making people like a book.  But overall the things that make people love certain books are really ephemeral, I think.  Like in a book I just read, Charles Dickens said drawing people into a story is like putting them into a mesmeric trance--as readers, we want to be completely transported into the world of the book.  But our ability to do so doesn&#039;t rest solely with the author, but also extraneous elements like our mood and our receptivity towards the story.  I think everyone has had the experience of trying to re-read a book that we know we love, but we can&#039;t get into it.  That&#039;s not the book&#039;s fault, it&#039;s the reader&#039;s.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting post, Marisa.  Although I do have say&#8230; um, I hated Scandal. =/  I didn&#8217;t finish it; nothing happened during the entire course of the book (the part that I read, anyway), and I hated the heroine.  So there you go&#8211;there&#8217;s always SOMEONE who doesn&#8217;t like a book.</p>
<p>I think there are certain storylines that resonate with individuals, and they&#8217;re probably going to like any book or movie with those plot elements, even if it&#8217;s not the best.  Also having characters you can connect with is important to making people like a book.  But overall the things that make people love certain books are really ephemeral, I think.  Like in a book I just read, Charles Dickens said drawing people into a story is like putting them into a mesmeric trance&#8211;as readers, we want to be completely transported into the world of the book.  But our ability to do so doesn&#8217;t rest solely with the author, but also extraneous elements like our mood and our receptivity towards the story.  I think everyone has had the experience of trying to re-read a book that we know we love, but we can&#8217;t get into it.  That&#8217;s not the book&#8217;s fault, it&#8217;s the reader&#8217;s.</p>
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		<title>By: azteclady</title>
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		<dc:creator>azteclady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 14:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heh, such a good question--with so many different answers.

And I don&#039;t have one answer to it, either, because it depends on the book. If I pick up a romance, I expect to care for the characters and to believe, by the end of the book, that their relationship will thrive in the future (whether it ends in HEA or the less formal HFN). If I pick a mystery, by golly I hope not to guess the identity of the guilty party within three pages.

And so on and so forth.

And yet, there are times when I pick up a mystery, and I do guess the identity of the killer pretty much immediately, yet the writing is so engaging, the characters so likable, that I enjoy it as much (if not more) than a mystery that&#039;s better at keeping me guessing.

Clear as mud?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heh, such a good question&#8211;with so many different answers.</p>
<p>And I don&#8217;t have one answer to it, either, because it depends on the book. If I pick up a romance, I expect to care for the characters and to believe, by the end of the book, that their relationship will thrive in the future (whether it ends in HEA or the less formal HFN). If I pick a mystery, by golly I hope not to guess the identity of the guilty party within three pages.</p>
<p>And so on and so forth.</p>
<p>And yet, there are times when I pick up a mystery, and I do guess the identity of the killer pretty much immediately, yet the writing is so engaging, the characters so likable, that I enjoy it as much (if not more) than a mystery that&#8217;s better at keeping me guessing.</p>
<p>Clear as mud?</p>
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		<title>By: Maria Lokken</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria Lokken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 13:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the MAIN things that engages me in a book is the dialogue.   I&#039;m put off by long expositions, lots of paragraphs, and no white space.  It&#039;s the dialogue that gives me the flavor of the characters and sets the tone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the MAIN things that engages me in a book is the dialogue.   I&#8217;m put off by long expositions, lots of paragraphs, and no white space.  It&#8217;s the dialogue that gives me the flavor of the characters and sets the tone.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 13:31:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Marisa,
Your ? is simple for me. - What are you looking for when you pick up a book?-  I look for a undercurrent of undeniable attraction between the main characters.  It has to be there from the start, even if they can&#039;t stand to be in the same room with each other.  That&#039;s what makes me keep reading the story, because I want to see how they &quot;get there&quot;.  For the second ? -What about the book keeps you reading it?- It&#039;s the same answer as the firrst.  I read romance for simply the fact that it&#039;s romance.  I love, LOVE.  If I didn&#039;t, I would be reading westerns, of science books.

Now, I have to say something about the BDB series.  I loved Z&#039;s story.  It was the first I read in the series.  It made me by all the other books in the series.  I just got done reading Lover Avenged, and I liked it.  I didn&#039;t say I loved it, I said I liked it.  And here is why:  It all goes back to your original ?.  This book had love in it, but not ROMANCE.  I love being transported to a different world in Ward&#039;s series.  She does it beautifully.  She&#039;s probably one of the best at it, but this book lacked romance.  There was not enough build up between Rehv and Ehlenea, for that fact, there just wasn&#039;t enough about the tow of them period.  I liked them together, but I wanted more of them and less of Wrath and Beth.(There story was already told back in Dark Lover)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Marisa,<br />
Your ? is simple for me. &#8211; What are you looking for when you pick up a book?-  I look for a undercurrent of undeniable attraction between the main characters.  It has to be there from the start, even if they can&#8217;t stand to be in the same room with each other.  That&#8217;s what makes me keep reading the story, because I want to see how they &#8220;get there&#8221;.  For the second ? -What about the book keeps you reading it?- It&#8217;s the same answer as the firrst.  I read romance for simply the fact that it&#8217;s romance.  I love, LOVE.  If I didn&#8217;t, I would be reading westerns, of science books.</p>
<p>Now, I have to say something about the BDB series.  I loved Z&#8217;s story.  It was the first I read in the series.  It made me by all the other books in the series.  I just got done reading Lover Avenged, and I liked it.  I didn&#8217;t say I loved it, I said I liked it.  And here is why:  It all goes back to your original ?.  This book had love in it, but not ROMANCE.  I love being transported to a different world in Ward&#8217;s series.  She does it beautifully.  She&#8217;s probably one of the best at it, but this book lacked romance.  There was not enough build up between Rehv and Ehlenea, for that fact, there just wasn&#8217;t enough about the tow of them period.  I liked them together, but I wanted more of them and less of Wrath and Beth.(There story was already told back in Dark Lover)</p>
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