We’ve all heard statements like “Oh, that would never happen,” or “A guy would never say that,” or “A guy would never think that.” Things like “What woman acts like that?” Or, “No modern woman in today’s world would ever put up with such crap.”
I’ve said before that a lot of this is because each reader approaches a story through their own personal little window on the world. They judge others by their experiences. And when someone acts outside that realm of understanding, the reader reacts negatively.
But I think more and more we hear statements like this because there are built in expectations in romance reading. It’s not that people don’t act a certain way (because really how can we possibly judge everyone by the same set of rules?) it’s…
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